Sunday, July 1, 2012

Women and Jesus

Good morning! We give thanks for the wonderful air-conditioning that allows us to celebrate Mass in comfort during this oppressive heat. Let us spare a thought and say a prayer for the millions of people who lost power during the recent storms. I suppose you could use that as an excuse to skip Mass, but as one pastor put it: "If you think this is hot, remember there is no air conditioning in hell."

One of the aims of my homily today is to give you something to help you stay cool.

The gospel today from Mark 5:21-43 gives us the opportunity to think about the role and equality of women in our country and world. So much of our attitude is culturally determined.

For all our progress in the United States, women still only earn about .82 cents on the dollar compared to male counterparts doing the same work. Women only received the right to vote in this country in 1920, less than 100 years ago.

In Korea, back in the day, if a member of the aristocracy failed to produce a male heir, there was the practice of kidnapping a desirable woman from a neighboring village to be used as a sort of surrogate mother (ssi-ba-ji 씨 받이) and, after she was impregnated and gave birth to a son, to send her back to her family, minus the child.

Our own attitudes in the west have taken a millennium to change. These were initially articulated by none other than St. Thomas Aquinas in the Thirteenth Century. His theology and philosophy continue to influence church thinking today. In his treatise (De Gener. ii, 3) he states that "the female is a misbegotten male." He believed all children start out as male and then for some something goes wrong and a female develops. Of course, modern science has proven the exact opposite. We know we all start out as female and then (something goes wrong?) and some of us come out male. And we also know that it is the male who determines the gender of the children. How many women were "put away" (a la Catherine of Aragon) for not producing males?

Of course this attitude is very ancient. There is a prayer in orthodox Judaism that men pray daily in which they praise and thank God, "for creating me human and not an animal, a Jew and not a Gentile, a free man and not a slave, and a man not a woman."

Rabbi Jesus of Nazareth would surely have known and perhaps even recited this prayer. But let's look at how he lived and how he related to women.

He was not afraid to associate with them, even going so far as to have a theological conversation with a single (?) Samaritan woman. Wealthy women helped finance the disciples' ministry. The wife of Pontius Pilate interceded on Jesus' behalf. He often visited the home of Mary, Martha and Lazarus in Bethany. And Mary Magdalene, with whom Jesus had a very close relationship, was the very first to encounter the Risen Lord.

In today's gospel, Jairus, a synagogue leader, implores Rabbi Jesus to come quickly for his 12-year-old daughter is near death. And Jesus goes. On the way a huge crowd presses in on Jesus. Among them is a women who has suffered from a hemorrhage for 12 years. She secretly reaches out and touches Jesus' garment—and is immediately healed.

Some wonderful things are going on in this episode. First, the plight of the woman. The gospel tells us she had spent all her money on doctors and had not gotten better. Worse, worse even than being sick, is that her hemorrhage rendered her ritually unclean. For twelve years she did not dare enter a synagogue, let alone the Temple. She was not only a woman, but an unclean woman. An outcast among outcasts! No wonder she approached Rabbi Jesus in secret.

Something else mysterious and wonderful happens. Jesus is apparently unaware of her and her plight, but "he knew power had gone out from him." When he spun around to ask "Who touched me?" the disciples are incredulous. "What, are you kidding? Look how this crowd is pressing in on you! How can you ask such a question? EVERYBODY is touching you!"

Jesus looks around until he finds the woman, now healed and made whole. She comes forward "in fear and trembling." Why? Well for one, she willingly broke the law! The Law forbad a woman with a flow of blood to touch someone who is clean. If that happened, it rendered the healthy person also unclean. But in Jesus case, the opposite happened. She was healed. Jesus didn't do this to embarrass her but to correct her mistaken idea that his cloak had magically healed her. Then he bestows on her a wonderful title, "Daughter," he said, "Your faith has made you well."

Meanwhile word arrives that during this interruption and delay, Jairus' daughter had died. "Why disturb the rabbi any further?" But Jesus insists they continue to the house and that Jairus should have faith. When they get there, there is a great commotion. In traditional Korea this is called "Gok ha da 곡 하다" or wailing. The Irish call in "keaning".

Jesus tells them to be quiet because the girl is not dead, but sleeping. And they laugh in his face. He puts them out and takes just three disciples and the girl's parents. Jesus takes her hand and says in Aramaic, "Talitha, kum!" (Little girl, arise!). The girl comes back from the dead and Jesus caps this miracle with a wonderfully human and tender request: "Give her something to eat."

These stories in the gospel are enough to challenge our impression of what it means to be a woman. On top of this, the Church adds the extra mystery that, when God became human, yes he came as a man, but he was born of the Virgin Mary and without any help from a man.

Treating girls and women with not just respect but as true equals, because Jesus did and because we call him Lord, is about the coolest thing we can do.


Monday, March 12, 2012

Cleansing our own temple (Third Sunday of Lent, Year B)

Imagine the shock a priest would feel if he went over to retrieve the Blessed Sacrament from the Tabernacle only to find the ciborium crowded by other things: an iPhone, a bank book, a peanutbutter sandwich, a bottle of aspirin and a bottle of beer!

None of these things is bad; they're just in the wrong place, a place reserved for the Body of Christ alone.

Today's gospel (John 2:13-25) shows Jesus getting very angry when he visited the Temple. The Court of the Gentiles, the only place where nonJews could pray within the Temple, had been turned into a marketplace for worshipers to exchange "unclean" money for kosher currency and purchase animals for sacrifice! Bartering, deceit, swindling and exploitation profaned the Temple. Jesus' righteous indignation was not just about zeal for God's house but also on behalf of us Gentiles: "My house shall be called a house of prayer for all the nations." (Mark 11:17) The market, however necessary, did not belong in that sacred place because it made it impossible for the Gentiles to pray there.

St. Paul reminds us that we form the living temple of God's presence. This Third Sunday in Lent invites us to open up the tabernacle of our hearts, made for Christ alone, and see whatever things, however good, are crowding out our love of God. Modern technology and toys, financial matters, food, health and social activities are good--- in their place. It's a question of priorities.

Do our preoccupations with worldly matters not only distract us from God but also contaminate our relationships with others? Does the way we relate to others make it difficult for them to pray? Do our words or actions not only drive people away from the church but away from God?

Lent invites us to examine and re-order our lives anew. What really matter? What's most important? Lent is the time for spiritual spring cleaning of our hearts.

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Into the wilderness (First Sunday of Lent, Year B)

How are your Lenten sacrifices going? Did you forget to give something up? Or like me, did you try to give up all meat and food from animals and only make it to Thursday? Did you forget to fast or did you eat meat last Wednesday or Friday? Well, the good news is I don't think you'll burn forever in hell. At least not for that. The bad news is that you have no excuse. You can begin Lent today. Today's readings show us how.

In the days of Noah and the Great Flood, God set a rainbow in the sky to remind us of his promise to save us from destruction. Whenever we see a rainbow, we remember God's promise.

In the days of Jesus, God set a cross on a hill to remind us of his promise to save us from the power of sin and death. When we see a cross, we remember God has kept his promise.

Lent helps us remember the God who never forgets us.

Mark's gospel today is short and to the point. Unlike the gospels of Luke and Matthew, there is no dramatic confrontation and dialogue between Jesus and Satan. In fact, Mark doesn't even say that Jesus fasted.

Mark doesn't say the Holy Spirit lead Jesus into the desert; he says the Holy Spirit DROVE Jesus into the desert. The goal is the same: to prepare for his life and mission Jesus must confront Satan and overcome temptation.

There are two main characters in the story: Jesus and Satan. There are two groups of extras: wild beasts and angels. And the stage is the wilderness. Only in the wilderness and only by confronting evil can Jesus discover the purpose of his life and the will of God.

And isn't that what we all want to know? What is the purpose of my life? What is the will of God for me?

To find out, we only need to do what Jesus did: enter the wilderness.

Guess what? The wilderness is inside you. The beasts and the angels are inside you. Satan and Jesus are inside you.

You enter the wilderness precisely by giving up things up during Lent, things that distract you, entertain you, amuse you or confuse you.

We don't give up things just to make ourselves miserable for 40 days. We pretend we have sinned so we can pretend we are sorry and after 40 days we can pretend we are forgiven and then at Easter we can pretend to be happy again. Then we wonder why our religion and our life seem like a pretense. Nor should we give up things to try to control God and get what we want and make God do what we want. And the worst reason to give up things is to make ourselves feel pious and holier and better than other people.

No, we fast and we abstain and we give things up during Lent in order to enter into the wilderness of our soul. There we will encounter wild beasts: our fears, our bad memories, our anger, our hatred, our sins. There we will be comforted by angels: love, fond memories, joy, laughter, hope. There we will face temptations: pride, guilt, revenge, self delusion.

There too we will encounter both Jesus and Satan. We learn to distinguish the voice of Satan from the voice of Jesus. Satan says, "You are worthless. You are nothing. Even God cannot save you. Give up." The voice of Jesus says, "I love you. I gave my life for you. You're worth it."

The temptations we face are the same Jesus faced. Feel sorry for yourself. Think only of yourself. Forget your humanity. Seize power. Use people. Betray God. Who would it hurt?

Every sin we commit comes from these temptations.

Satan wants us to forget who Jesus is and to forget who we are and to forget what God has done for us.

You, each of you, are precious children of God, made in God's image and likeness and NOTHING you can do can change or destroy that. Sin makes us forget this.

It's when we forget who we are that evil takes over our lives.

We do not fast and give things up for Lent to earn God's love; we fast and give things up to remind ourselves how much God loves us.

This Lent give up the things, the attitudes, the language that disguise who you are. Give up the diversions that drown out the voice of God in your heart. Give up the habits that distort the image of God in which you were made.

Then you will discover the purpose of your life; then you will know the will of God.